I can’t even begin to tell y’all how much I LOVE my church, Cross Point. There are a lot of backstories that led to this place, which we don’t have time for, but just trust that it has taken me 3.5 years in Nashville to find a church like this.[Sure. We could have a twelve hour debate about church picking and the theology behind that and what-have-you, but please can we not? Thanks.]
While I was still in Scotland, I emailed Wes, the college campus pastor at Cross Point, and I said, “Wes. Please. Let me volunteer for you. Puh-LEEEEZZZEE!!”
We had never met. So he said, “Rein it in, sister. Let’s have coffee first.”
So we did and I passed the test. And now I get to hang out every week at the college service and meet cool students [big waves to Hannah and the other girls!] and disciple girls and lead a small group and plan parties and all of it.
I also got to write nametags for people as they walked in last week. Meaning, I got to speak to almost EVERY.SINGLE.STUDENT. As you can imagine, I was practically drunk on excitement after that. It doesn’t take much to make me happy, people.
I learned something important about Annie while I was in Scotland. [Mixing first person and third person? You’re welcome. I’m a professional.] I feel the most alive when I’m doing ministry. I just do. I wish I could just write and speak and talk with college girls about God and life and the et ceteras that come along with this phase of life.
That is my sweet spot.
But. I still have to help set up chairs and clean up the green room and sweep. [I’m guessing… haven’t done that yet, but I bet I will.] And I really try to do it with a happy heart because I don’t want to be a nightmare volunteer. 🙂
But that is not my sweet spot. Not even a little bit. I call that my “sweep spot” – doing the thing you don’t want to do but needs to get done. And even though I find so much joy in college ministry, I don’t love the parts of ministry that aren’t fun.[Hi. I’m Annie. I’m super mature.]
When it comes to church service, what is the right thing to do?
Do you pursue and seek out your sweet spot? Or do you just look at what needs to be done and step into that sweep spot?
We all have limited hours to serve… so how do you pick?
I’ve been thinking about this so much lately. I watch some of my friends serve constantly throughout their church, doing the yucky stuff. And while it is impressive, I also wonder if they are tapping into that firey spot in your knower that says, “I WAS MADE TO BE RIGHT HERE.”
But I know that some people really do feel like their sweet spot is the sweep spot. Which I find amazing.
And there are others [not me of course… ahem.] who tend to lean towards the idea that if that fire isn’t raging and I’m not passionate about it, I don’t want to do it.
And by the way, isn’t our human nature SO annoying that we get tired of serving at all? I think that is super annoying. I wish my flesh didn’t scream for relief every time I’m doing something I don’t love. Sheesh, for that matter, even when it is stuff I love there are times when my flesh screams “GO LAY ON THE COUCH AND WATCH THE BACHELOR!”[We have GOT to talk about Ben. Soon and very soon.]
So I’m putting the question out there to you.
When you are serving at church, do you look for your sweet spot or do you look for a sweep spot?
Is your sweet spot the sweep spot?
Do you pursue serving in your strengths or do you find that serving anywhere better reveals your strengths?
Have you found your sweet spot? What is it?
Tell me how you serve.