Summer Lovin’: Sex + Dating with Kait & JJ Tomlin

Today on the show is a thoughtful conversation around sex and dating with Kait and JJ Tomlin, hosts of The Heart of Dating Podcast. Navigating sexual desire and healthy boundaries when you are a single person of faith can be really challenging. It’s also a really important part of being a human. We tackle some of your most asked questions like, how far is too far, is sex still just for marriage in 2023, and how do we handle shame for what we’ve done and/or what we haven’t done? So many of us feel pain, shame, worry, frustration, and disconnect when it comes to our sexual lives. Our deepest hope is that today’s episode will bring you hope and will start a conversation between you and your close people about how you are navigating your sexual life.

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Kait & JJ Tomlin

Conversation Links:

Jersey Shore

Genesis 2:23

Song of Songs

Matthew 5:27-30

2 Corinthians 7:10

Romans 12:1

John Piper

Genesis 22:1-19

Francis Chan

You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity

John Mark Comer

How to Set and Keep Physical Boundaries Without Being Legalistic with Tori & Chad Masters

Chad Masters

1 Thessalonians 5:23-24

Riley Kehoe


Josh Broom

James 5:16

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